Meeting between Dmitri Sunshine and Caryn Paer — Summary

Date: March 20, 2026 | Duration: 43 min | Via: Zoom

Overview

  • Caryn Paer and Dmitri Sunshine discussed the evolving role of a fractional operating leader, emphasizing the importance of carving out a niche in the competitive market.
  • They are currently in early stages, working on client acquisition without any paying clients yet.
  • Caryn targets high-growth tech firms in financial services, while Dmitri focuses on RIAs (Registered Investment Advisors) under $1.5 billion in assets.
  • They discussed the value of community through fractional leadership guilds and are utilizing tools like CRM for business operations.
  • Both participants acknowledged the significance of networking and relationship-building, as well as the importance of mental health and personal motivations influencing their business journeys.

Action Items

Caryn Paer

  • Send Dmitri her fractional operating leader one-pager PDF (31:38)
  • Continue refining and publishing LinkedIn content to build thought leadership (33:30)
  • Share nonprofit mental health campaign posts for Dmitri to help promote (40:07)
  • Finalize branding materials and website content with the hired designer (40:36)
  • Stay connected and follow up after the meeting (41:52)

Dmitri Sunshine

  • Share Human Agency and fractional-related platform links with Caryn (09:12)
  • Send Caryn his service one-pager for mutual client referrals (31:38)
  • Host a fractional ‘show and tell’ salon and invite Caryn to participate when ready (36:20)
  • Help promote Caryn’s mental health nonprofit posts on LinkedIn (40:10)

Key Topics

  • Caryn clarified her role as a ‘fractional operating leader’ rather than COO due to varying interpretations
  • Both participants are new to their current ventures and have yet to secure clients
  • Caryn focused on refining her offers, niche, and ICP through LinkedIn publishing and networking, especially in NYC
  • Discussed networking groups relevant to health, financial services, and global companies
  • Caryn uses a CRM system integrated with ‘Go High Level’ for scheduling and payment processing (~$100/month)
  • Dmitri targets RIAs with less than $1.5 billion AUM due to new regulations
  • Emphasized persistence in relationship-building with anecdotes about follow-ups
  • Plans for Dmitri to host a ‘show and tell’ salon for fractional professionals
  • Mental health was a mutual interest with plans to support Caryn’s nonprofit campaign launching in May
  • Dmitri announced the expected arrival of his baby boy on May 15th

Detailed Notes

Fractional Operating Leadership Strategy

  • Caryn Paer avoids the term COO due to its broad meanings and prefers “fractional operating leader”
  • She is actively shaping her niche and offers based on ongoing market validation and networking feedback
  • Neither Caryn nor Dmitri currently have paying clients, reflecting early venture stages
  • Caryn prioritizes high-growth tech companies selling financial services as her top segment
  • Private equity-backed RIA aggregators and insurance roll-ups are secondary and tertiary focuses
  • Dmitri targets RIAs under $1.5 billion in AUM, especially due to upcoming new regulations effective in June

Marketing and Outreach Tactics

  • Caryn initially posted consistently on LinkedIn for about 4-5 weeks but paused due to increased networking events
  • Reposting older content after a quarter is recommended to maintain presence
  • Dmitri emphasizes targeting individuals currently experiencing pain points for better engagement
  • Caryn uses LinkedIn Premium but has not yet invested in Sales Navigator
  • Caryn’s CRM is built on Go High Level, costing around $100/month including setup help
  • Dmitri shares advanced automation using Claude Code with API keys, spending about $200/month on top-tier access

Business Development Insights

  • Caryn recounts a discouraging call with a private equity board member dismissing the need for her services, who then reached back out with a new acquisition needing operational help
  • Dmitri explains the difficulty of entering wealth management due to slow processes and strong trust requirements
  • Both agree targeting private equity-backed companies demands patient, relationship-driven approaches

Community and Collaboration

  • Dmitri plans to host a “show and tell” salon for four fractional professionals to share key learnings
  • Both share passion for mental health; Caryn sits on a nonprofit board focused on underserved children’s mental health
  • Caryn plans to launch a mental health awareness campaign in May, aligned with Mental Health Awareness Month
  • Dmitri offers to help share content through his network

Personal Context

  • Dmitri shares upcoming arrival of a baby boy due May 15th, his first with his wife but third child overall
  • Previous mental health challenges were linked to sleep deprivation
  • Caryn’s sons are ages 19 and 21; she left a full-time role at Citibank in September to pursue fractional leadership

Keywords

Fractional Operating Leader, Networking Strategies, LinkedIn Outreach, Private Equity Backed Companies, Mental Health Advocacy, Cybersecurity Insurance